Can't remember. Shades of the same problems, the same conversations. That one, he is used to being on this side of, he's just not used to caring. Faye's memories never mattered. It wasn't relevant to anything, even if it the only thing that could convince her of that was getting the useless things back.

"Hey," Spike says, "at least it's only almost. Almost worse than you expect can be a step up."

It's one way of looking at it, at least.